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An article by Sex educator Jani, is the author of The G-gasm Method.
Most men are not doing their jobs. Thinking that women do not need sexual release will bring you into divorce court. Behind money problems, the number one reason for divorce, are sexual related difficulties. Yet, many men continue to behave in lackadaisical manner regarding satisfying their lady. Many men continue to believe and accept the endless myths about female orgasms.
Most guys have figured out the hot button known as the clitoris. We know that if we stimulate the clitoris manually or orally we can make the lady explode with delight. The problem lies in the fact that most men have no clue how to make her climax during intercourse. Something like 70% to 90% of women never experience orgasm during penetration. That is not right.
I have recently published a book called the G-GASM METHOD: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO THE G-SPOT ORGASM and I know a lot about women. My education in all things female started when I was a twelve your old kid experiencing my first wet juicy kiss. During this lifelong odyssey with the opposite sex, I have learned what it takes to please a woman.
Myth #1: There is no such thing as a G-spot
The G-spot is located 2 – 3 inches inside the opening to the vagina on the outside or anterior wall. It is no surprise the “there is no G-spot” fallacy perpetuates. Recently, on August 26, 2006 two so-called sexperts, Dr. Thomas Stuttaford and Suzi Godson, doubt the existence of the G-spot in an article in the Times Online UK. It is no wonder that many men have no idea how to please their lover. Article: http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,8123-2327496,00.html With all due respect, there is a G-spot … go ask my wife.
Myth #2: Woman do not need to orgasm to feel satisfied.
This one is actually laughable, but many men hang on to this belief because they do not know what to do to make their wives/girlfriend climax. Just as a healthy man wants to reach orgasm, so do female counterparts – they definitely want to orgasm, even at times more so than men. Many women have conditioned themselves to somehow believe that orgasm is just not possible with their lovers – yet they will seek sexual relief elsewhere – either through masturbation or another tryst.
Many women have outside influences, either their Mother or girlfriends that teach them that reaching orgasm with your husband is not important. Togetherness, love and romance matter but reaching orgasm is not a necessity. Sounds like a bunch of bologna.
Many women do not want to hurt their lovers feelings, so they do not talk about their lack of orgasms. In reality, they would love to be able to climax during intercourse, just as much as men. Society has conditioned many women to wonder quietly, “what is wrong with me that I can’t reach orgasm” when really it is their husband/boyfriends lack of sexual know how.
Myth #3: Women do not ejaculate.
Truth is, most women have the ability to ejaculate. Sadly, most men have no idea how to make ejaculation happen. Through education, preparation and proper stimulation of the G-spot the majority of ladies out there can ejaculate.
Myth #4: Women need a large penis to be satisfied.
As stated before, the G-spot is only 2 – 3 inches inside the vagina – easily accessible via fingers or penis. Even the so called “tuna can” guys have access to the G-spot – and if you cannot set off the rockets with your penis – use your fingers.
Consider for a moment the missionary position – the one most used. Repeated strokes with a huge tool will bruise her kidneys before she reaches orgasm. In this position, there is no clitoral or G-spot stimulation – that equals to no orgasm for the lady.
Myth #5: Men know how to please their lovers
The quoted figure is that 70% – 90% of women never reach orgasm during intercourse –that is incredible! On top of that, something like five out of ten women never climax with their lover. What the heck is going on here?
There is a variety of ways to get a lady off. Some women get off with nipple stimulation alone; some can only get off with manual clitoral stimulation, others with only with the greatest invention known to man – the buzzing vibrator. But the best and most intense orgasms are achieved through direct stimulation of the G-spot, and once the G-spot is “awake”, it is easy for the woman to climax during intercourse. These G-spot orgasms, or vaginal orgasms -- AKA G-gasms are extraordinarily intense and seem more like full body orgasm. The
awakening of the G-spot is the key to her ability to orgasm during intercourse.
About the Author: Sex educator Jani, is the author of The G-gasm Method: The Ultimate Guide to the G-spot Orgasm - available at Amazon.com(search for "G-gasm Method") and Tonight's The Night ... Your Ultimate Guide to Sexy, Kinky Things to do With Your Lover available at Amazon.com(search for "Tonight's The Night") Please visit Jani's blog to learn more about the G-gasm Method and Female Orgasms.. Thanks ... enjoy, let the G-gasms roll. |